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Tuesday, January 19, 2010

My Grandpa's Wisdom

As I realize I have 5 months to plan a wedding, plan a marriage, and still do my best to reach the campus with the love of Christ, I can become a little bit overwhelmed.

You see, I am a planner to the max (thanks mom), and that means many things run through my head at the same time.

That being said, I'm thankful for the people God has placed in my life to keep it sane, and thankful for the willingness of friends and family to help out where needed. The only problem - I'm trying to figure out where exactly I can use the help.

Before I offer my grandpa's wisdom, I thought I'd share some thoughts:
It has been wonderful to experience another culture through dating (and now engaged to) a Sri Lankan man, who was born in Nigeria and moved to Canada when 13. It is a beautiful mix of so many cultures, and wonderful foods, and customs.

I went Kura Saree shopping with his sister (a red rich saree the groom gives the bride) and that itself was quite the experience! But I loved every minute of it. I think I can really embrace the Sri Lankan-ness that is in me. :)

I'm blogging about prepping for the wedding because my Aunt requested, however, I think it could be a good opportunity to step outside myself and my planning and reflect on all that I am thankful for in Christ.

My grandpa's wisdom when I told him I'm engaged? He gave us a verse "Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ." from 1 Cor 11:1. I am praying that I would imitate Christ these next 5 months, and for the rest of my life, really, as I anticipate the upcoming adventures of where God will take us! I am willing and ready to go where He calls us, as scary as it is.

3 comments:

  1. Can't wait to see you in a Kurai saree! :)

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  2. will you do henna too? or is that just Indian culture that does it..... I was thinking about that today. IT'S SO PRETTY

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